With Bill, 
Washington State Shifts Its Views on Marriage
Published: January 16, 2012 - New York Times
SEATTLE — The 
bill that would legalize same-sex 
marriage in Washington State is notable not just for the boldness of its 
ambition or for the fact that it was proposed by Gov. Christine 
Gregoire, a Democrat whose last memorable remarks on the issue placed her 
firmly in the not-yet camp. 
What is also striking is that some of the legislators sponsoring the measure 
can recall earlier debates — held years ago and sometimes only internally — in 
which they were certain they would oppose such a law. 
gI was a no,h recalled Senator Rosemary McAuliffe, a Democrat from the 
Seattle suburb of Bothell, and now a sponsor. 
But that was back in the 1990s, when Ms. McAuliffe said an early version of a 
marriage bill circulated in the Legislature. Over time, the senator said, gI met 
the families, I met the children of those families, and I had the realization 
that it is our responsibility to protect all of our citizens against 
discrimination.h 
The bill, which Ms. Gregoire filed last week, would make Washington the 
seventh state where same-sex couples are allowed to marry. Washington, D.C., 
also permits it, and supporters here are cautiously optimistic. The bill 
sponsors say that they are just a few votes short, and that several undecided 
lawmakers could vote yes. 
In 1998, Washington passed a law saying only a man and woman could marry, and 
the State Supreme Court upheld the law in 2006. But the state has also taken 
steady steps to expand rights for gay couples. In 2006, it passed a civil rights 
bill that recognized domestic partnerships. In 2009, it approved what has become 
known as an geverything but marriageh law. 
Opponents challenged that law through a ballot referendum, but voters upheld 
it, 53 to 47 percent. As recently as 2008, when she was seeking her second term, 
Ms. Gregoire suggested that churches should decide the issue. But in her State 
of the State address this month, the governor said, gLetfs tell the children of 
our same-sex couples that their parentsf relationship is equal to all others in 
the state.h 
In an interview, the governor, a former state attorney general, said, gIfm a 
lawyer, Ifm a wife, Ifm a mom, Ifm governor. Ifm also a Catholic, and I have 
struggled with this issue for the last seven years.h 
This is Ms. Gregoirefs final year in office (she has decided not to seek a 
third term), and many people have speculated that she is supporting same-sex 
marriage only now that the political risk of doing so has diminished. But the 
governor said her position had evolved, in part through conversations with her 
two daughters. 
gTheyfve grown up with kids whofve got two moms and two dads, and they just 
think this generation needs to get over it,h she said. 
The governor said she had been preparing to address the issue this session 
since the fall. 
gIn the middle of the night, Ifd wake up and come up with an argument I heard 
and I would work through that argument,h she said. gI think Ifve attacked 
straight on any argument that has been advanced on the subject. You can respect 
the rights of the churches to decide who they will marry, but at the same time 
you canft sit here as governor and have somebody come into an office say, eI 
want a license,f and say, eNo, wefre going to discriminate. Wefre from the 
state.f h 
The Washington bill is modeled on the law passed 
by New York last summer, which included language clarifying that religious 
groups and churches are not required to marry same-sex partners. 
Senator Ed Murray, a Seattle Democrat who is chairman of the powerful Ways 
and Means Committee, has been one of the most persistent advocates for same-sex 
marriage in the Legislature. Mr. Murray said Ms. Gregoire strengthened 
protections for religious groups beyond what he had proposed to her. 
Some of the same lawmakers who led opposition to the statefs 
geverything-but-marriageh law and supported the referendum to defeat it say they 
will organize a coalition to defeat a marriage law, should this bill pass the 
Legislature. On Friday, a group of Roman Catholic bishops in Washington issued a 
statement opposing the new bill and praising the statefs existing law for 
recognizing gthe unique and irreplaceable potential of a man and woman to 
conceive and nurture new life, thus contributing to the continuation of the 
human race.h 
Mr. Murray, noting that Washingtonfs petition-friendly political system makes 
any bill passed by the Legislature vulnerable, said he and others had worked 
since last spring to build support behind the scenes, anticipating a battle in 
the Legislature but also at the polls. 
gIfm a little concerned that people are popping the Champagne corks,h he 
said. gThey need to remember it took us years to find one vote on the civil 
rights bill and wefre several votes short on the marriage bill. Wefre very 
close, but we donft have the votes yet.h